Letting Go of the ‘Good Girl’ in Bed

She’s not here to please.
She’s here to feel.

And when the ‘good girl’ dies, pleasure begins.

She was taught to be polite.
To say yes when she meant maybe.
To moan for his ego, not her orgasm.
To stay quiet, stay small, stay pretty.

The ‘good girl’ version of you learned to perform sex, not experience it.

She was never taught that boundaries could build intimacy.
That desire didn’t need to be whispered.
That arousal could come from power, not performance.

And so many of us stayed there. For years.

Until something shifted.

Maybe it was a relationship ending.
Maybe it was motherhood.
Maybe it was waking up one day and thinking, “There has to be more than this.”

And there is.

There’s the version of you who asks for what she wants.
Who knows what she wants.
Who says no without guilt. And yes with every cell of her body.

This version doesn’t live for his approval.
She lives for her own truth.

At TiKL, we’re not here for sexual scripts.
We’re here for sacred rebellion.

We design tools that invite your body back into itself.
That shift sex from something you “do” to something you feel.
That turn the volume up on what your body has been whispering for years.

So here’s your permission slip to let her, the ‘good girl’, go.

And let your whole, wild, worthy self take up space.

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