The Truth About ‘Selfish’ Women

They called her selfish, and she smiled.

Because the “selfish” woman is sovereign. She’s done living at the mercy of obligation and praise. She’s no longer on call for everyone else’s comfort.

She’s not selfish. She’s sacred.

At TIKL, we know that reclaiming your time, energy, and boundaries is not a betrayal of others, it’s a return to yourself. To your truth. To your wholeness.

The “selfish” woman has learned that her body is not a commodity. Her pleasure is not performative. Her yes is sacred, but so is her no.

She knows how to:

• Say no without guilt.

• Say yes from fullness.

• Cancel plans to protect her nervous system.

• Pause before responding to pressure.

• Choose softness, spaciousness, and sovereignty over people-pleasing.

She’s not here to be palatable. She’s here to be powerful.

So, the next time someone calls you selfish, take a breath. Thank them for noticing your boundaries. And keep being the woman who listens to herself, fiercely, tenderly, unapologetically.

Welcome to the era of sovereign womanhood.
Where your needs are not negotiable. Your energy is your own. And your devotion to self is your revolution.